Saniel and Linda's Events
Regional Area Events
In 2010, Linda and Saniel will again offer a variety of regional workshops and retreats in North America and abroad. Some are listed below and others will be posted as they become available.
We also welcome you to consider extended duration Personal Apprenticeships with Linda and Saniel, as well as
Residential Retreats at their home in Sonoma, California.
You may also schedule in-person or phone Consultations with Saniel or Linda.
Email info@sanielandlinda.com for more information.
Home-Study Courses
In addition to these in-person events, Saniel and Linda offer on-line home-study and live interactive conference call courses including The White-Hot Yoga of the Heart live teleseminar, and the home-study courses Great Relief Hero's Journey and the Human SUN Experience, which include continuing follow-up conference calls, and HEARTgazing™ Transmission of the Heart: Extended Meditations downloadable audio recordings.
Upcoming Courses
- The Fierce Mystery Telecourses
- Dancing with the She-Mystery: A Tantra of Trust Retreat for Men
- Take HEART! Tour regional workshops, 2010
- Monthly Heart Gatherings with Saniel & Linda
- Full-Length Guided Meditations for HEARTgazing™
- The Great Relief Hero's Journey
- The Human SUN Experience
The Fierce Mystery Telecourses
Two to explore the interface between our work and Integral, the third to develop or strengthen radical conscious awakeness and fierce discriminative intelligence:NOTE: All telecourse sessions will be recorded and participants will receive links to download them for future listening.
I. An Integral Look at Opening the Gateway of Mutuality – a free 3-session telecourse
February 2010
Hans Plasqui of Belgium has been a student of Ken Wilber's Integral teachings and, more recently, a practitioner of our WholeHEART Way work. In London last August, he gave Saniel a copy of a paper he wrote for his Integral Studies work at JFK University in Walnut Creek, CA. Titled "Opening the Gateway of Mutuality: An Introduction to the Trans-Lineage Path of Saniel Bonder," it's an Integral evaluation of Saniel's writings and our work.At Saniel's suggestion, he and Hans are anchoring this no-holds-barred discussion of the work based on Hans's paper. They'll discuss it point by point and invite your comments and questions.
Note: to understand why we're putting so much attention on the connection between Integral and our work, see sanielandlinda.com/integral for a brief explanatory letter.
Prerequisites: This course is free and open to everyone. It'll be to your advantage, however, to have at least a general awareness of both the Integral and Waking Down in Mutuality teachings.
Course sessions: Saturdays, Feb. 6, 13, and 20,
8:00 - 9:15 a.m., Pacific time
Click here to register. When you register, you'll be sent an email with call-in instructions plus a PDF download of Hans's paper. Please read it in advance of the course.
II. Get Fierce! Cultivating Consciousness & Discriminative Intelligence – a 7-session telecourse
February-March 2010
For years we've been observing that many practitioners of Waking Down in Mutuality don't seem to really get the "consciousness piece" -- including some who have passed through their Second Birth. This leads to two closely related and unfortunate outcomes:- a lack of confidence in realized Being, and
- a weakness in discriminative intelligence or whole-being discernment, when life throws its inevitable curve balls right at you.
If you want to get and stay fiercely confident in your ownership of radical, embodied, conscious awakeness, don't miss this course!
As a bonus, you'll receive gift ebook versions of two of Saniel's books, Healing the Spirit/Matter Split and The Conscious Principle.
Prerequisites: Open to everyone, but you should have a basic grounding in our teachings before the course starts. Please read the two bonus books in advance of the course.
Course sessions: Thursdays, Feb. 11 - March 25, 2010:
February 11, 18, 25; March 4, 11, 18, 25,
6:00 - 7:15 p.m., Pacific time
Fee: $238. Click here to register. When you register you'll receive call-in instructions and other details for the course, including the two bonus ebooks and possibly other downloadable written and audio materials.
"Woo hoo! I'm so excited this course is happening. The opportunity to do this live telecourse with Saniel, the founder of Waking Down in Mutuality, and Linda, who has herself helped so many people directly awaken into Consciousness, is amazing. The transmission alone is going to make such a difference for everyone who participates -- not to mention Linda and Saniel's powerfully liberating teachings and responses to our personal questions.
I'll be on the calls even though it'll be 3 a.m. for me!"
— Sara Jones, Spain
III. The Human SUN Experience & the Integral View – a 12-session telecourse
May-August 2010
This is going to be an exciting, provocative course, memorable and maybe groundbreaking! The Human SUN Experience is a 6-month, multimedia online-based immersion in Saniel and Linda's essential transmission and teachings on his revolutionary approach to embodied awakening, "Waking Down in Mutuality." In these 75-minute sessions we'll look at each of the 12 Human SUN Experience "gateways" from multiple lenses offered by the Integral vision as extensively developed by Ken Wilber -- and then turn around and look at the Integral vision from the post-hypermasculine perspectives suggested by that particular Human SUN gateway.We won't even try to get into details of what we'll be covering -- in fact, it's all in process right now, an emergent Dharma dialogue. Some of our friends and students who are "fluent" in both the Integral and Human SUN perspectives are helping us structure this telecourse. The audio recordings will then become an optional Integral module for everyone taking The Human SUN Experience in the future.
We're not aware of any other well-developed, distinct teaching or Dharma (sustaining life-way) that has undertaken such an in-depth exploration of potential mutual contributions between the Integral vision and its own -- in a way that invites participants to co-creatively help integrate the two "maps." We welcome you to be part of it and learn along with us!
Prerequisites: Open only to those who have taken or are presently enrolled in The Human SUN Experience. Click here for information and registration details on that course.
Course sessions: Tuesdays, May 25 - August 10, 2010:
May 25; June 1, 8, 15, 22, 29; July 6, 13, 20, 27;
August 3, 10,
6:00 - 7:15 p.m., Pacific time
Fee: $378. Click here to register. When you register you'll receive call-in instructions and any downloadable materials you'll need. Additional material may be emailed to you over time.
"For those looking to awaken in a thoroughly Integral manner, the Waking Down in Mutuality Human SUN Experience process is exemplary. My experience so far, after only a couple of months (and after many years and many modalities of, in effect, integral practice), is that witnessing consciousness is not only deepening and stabilizing into a Sun-like Brightness, but doing so right here, right now, integrated with all form and not other than my all too human self; all this with the unearthing and healing of shadow at a depth I never imagined (despite all the prior work), unfolding as it is at a breakneck pace -- what in all feels like an Integral Realization of my Unique Self.
"What is especially important is that awakening is in the end a results game. The Waking Down-Human SUN process, increasingly refined in its presentation over the years, has had statistically over the top success for the better part of two decades -- with the "second birth" happening for most participants rather quickly. Why then not dare to Integrally Awaken and take the leap onto this time-tested Wake Down Express!"
– Michael Schwarz, Aesthetic Editor, Integral Life; Professor, Augusta State University, Georgia
Dancing with the She-Mystery
A Tantra of Trust Retreat for Men Only,
with Saniel
Friday, March 5 – Sunday, March 7, 2010
Sonoma, California
When Saniel mentioned this idea to a few men who are deeply engaged in our work and know a little of his own tantric story and approach, the response was instant and powerful. As a result, this first-time-ever tantric transmission and teaching retreat for men only is taking place the first weekend of March, 2010.
This retreat is an opportunity for discovering much more of yourself, meeting and holding space with and for other men, and learning a way to reframe even the apparently most negative or difficult aspects of being a man in today's world – reframe them as elements of a self-revealing, spontaneously self-empowering tantric dance with the "She-Mystery," the great Feminine Principle and Presence in all her forms. This workshop has never before been offered and we don't intend to offer more than once or twice a year.
The retreat will include presentations by Saniel, meditations, and small group activities, but the centerpiece event will be each man's allotted time to share with the attention and support of all the others. For this reason, space is limited to twelve qualified applicants.
This is a unique opportunity for men involved in our work who want to go way deeper, whether they're awakened in their Second Life or not.
Pre-requisites
By the start of the retreat:
- Be seriously engaged in the Waking Down in Mutuality work or Saniel and Linda's WholeHEART Way teachings and practice for at least six months.
- Have read at least Healing the Spirit/Matter Split and The Tantra of Trust by Saniel, and preferably The White-Hot Yoga of the Heart and The Incarnation of Mutuality as well. (The latter two books are strongly recommended but not required.)
- Reserve your space by enrolling at the webstore.
- Send a letter of intent to Saniel at info@sanielandlinda.com expressing your history in our work and your hope or intentions for what the retreat will mean for you, in 200 words or less.
We're offering two early registration discounts – one of them a super-early discount for those ready to act right away. Some scholarship assistance is available. If you wish to explore this, write us at info@sanielandlinda.com.
Super-early price (paid in full by Dec. 31, 2009): $400
Early price (paid in full by Jan. 31, 2010): $450
Normal price (paid after Jan. 31, 2010): $500
Course times are Friday 7 pm – Sunday 4 pm, March 5–7, 2010. Some lodging spaces may be available for reasonable fees in the rented retreat venue. No meals provided.
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"I have been involved in the Waking Down work for two years now and during that period have worked primarily with Saniel and Linda as my teachers. My Second Birth Awakening came just nine months after beginning this life- changing path. Most recently I initiated some personal consultation work with Saniel around relationship and opening to what he refers to as the She-Mystery, the Divine Feminine. This came on the heels of a year of intense relating with a very powerful woman, which I subsequently realized was a tantric initiation. Saniel has helped to wisely and compassionately guide me through this experience and continues to assist me to move deeper into this alluring and challenging domain of Being. I know this is my edge and my awakened growth work now. I feel ready to find that partner with whom I can create the skilled and superlative partnership that Saniel and Linda talk about in their Tantra of Trust teachings.
"I’m very excited about this upcoming men's workshop, and I can’t encourage you enough to give serious consideration to attending. Navigating the arena of relationship is probably the most challenging, and potentially rewarding, activity one can enter in this human birth. Come learn from a veteran and wise teacher while sharing the comradeship of other like-minded men."
– Robert Young, Ph.D.
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Where Is Your HEART Taking You Now?
The Next Leading Edge of Your Ongoing Transformation – a Personal and Community Empowerment
weekend retreats with Saniel & LindaFriday 7pm – Sunday 4pm
- Atlanta, March 19-21 Click here to enroll
- Philadelphia, June 25-27 Click here to enroll
- Portland, July 16-18 Click here to enroll
Do you know where you're going to?For people involved in our kind of transformational and integrative work, questions like these from a song made famous by Diana Ross become very real and pressing. What about you? Do you know...?
Do you like the things that life is showing you
Where are you going to?
Do you know...?
Do you get
What you're hoping for
When you look behind you
There's no open doors
What are you hoping for?
Do you know...?
(Theme from Mahogany, M. Masser/G. Goffin)
The HEART is your divinely human nature, forever coming more alive and awake and prompting continual healing, growth, awakenings, and unfolding. This weekend-long intensive retreat with us is designed to address each person's "next leading edge" of ongoing transformation – in a way that empowers both that individual and also the whole community of those participating in the retreat together. We'll help you explore these questions and others like them, and may be able to help you reframe your take on what's going on in your life, why, what it means ... and where it's leading you. That, plus the infusion of divine, radiant joy and fullness that we all share, the delight in coming together with old friends and new, and the mysterious current of confidence in Being that tends to get amplified for all of us when we spend this much concentrated time face to face, will make, for most everyone who attends, a most memorable and stirring weekend.
The core of the retreat will be a block of time – around 25 minutes to a half hour – when each of you will share what's presently up for you and, as adept facilitators, we'll work with you directly. We welcome you to bring up literally any issues, challenges, and enterprises, positive or difficult, that are the cutting edge for you right now, or, if you don't have one, whatever you're moved to share. Other participants will be welcome to speak but their primary role will be to hold the space for you and to take in what is happening, including how we are responding to you; that might be inspiring or instructive for them too.
Our work will include conversation and may also involve meditating, gazing, laying on of hands, or the specific kinds of "awakened shamanic" service we call "spirit invocation" or "spirit relocation." We may utilize any of our teachings – on awakening (Waking Down in Mutuality), relationship and relating (The Tantra of Trust), empowerment and manifestation (The Force of Destiny) – and any benign methods that recommend themselves in the moment in our white-hot, HEART-adept communion with you. These may include movement, dance, improvisation, music, Linda's singing and toning, Saniel's flute, and more.
These personal passages won't be our only format for the retreat work. You'll also have triad or small group time, and we'll have group meditations, a HEARTgazing session, breaks, more music, movement and dance in the large group format. We also invite you to bring musical instruments, poetry, and other modes of creative expression that we'll use during the workshop when times feel right.
Prerequisites
This event is only for serious, established practitioners of our work, whether in the general Waking Down in Mutuality culture or with us, Saniel and Linda, personally. There won't be time for introductory conversations and we expect everyone who attends to have a good basic grasp of our teachings. Also, space is strictly limited to 16 participants, so reserve your spot as soon as you can.
Fee Schedule
Super-Early Registration price thru January 15, 2010: $397
Early Registration price thru February 15: $447
Full price thereafter: $497
Some scholarship assistance may be available. Installment payment plans can be generated at the full fee price; contact us at info@sanielandlinda.com.
The weekend intensive retreat "Where Is Your HEART Taking You Now?" is the centerpiece of our Take HEART! Tour visits in the U.S. and abroad in 2010. We'll be announcing our other offerings soon!
Monthly Heart Gatherings with Saniel & Linda
at their home in SonomaThe following Sundays are tentatively scheduled:
Jan. 17, Feb. 14, March 28,
April 25 (Saniel's 60th birthday!),
May 23, June 27, July 11, August 8,
Sept. 19, Oct. 3, Nov. 21, Dec. 19.
Note: Because Saniel and Linda are welcoming you into their home, this gathering is open only to people they've already met. If you'd like to bring someone new, please RSVP at least several days in advance.
Limited seating. RVSP linda@sanielandlinda.com.
$25
Full-Length Guided Meditations for HEARTgazing™
"HEARTgazing™ Transmission of the HEART" extended meditations
Now available as downloadable audio recordingsFrom early on in his work, Saniel implemented the ancient technique of communicating spiritual energy and consciousness by glance or gaze. This has become a tradition among all the Waking Down in Mutuality teachers. And it's at the core of our HEARTgazing™ offerings.
If you've taken the Transmission of the HEART course with Saniel Bonder & Linda Groves-Bonder, you've already been introduced to their meditations to access the living essence through HeartGazing. Now Saniel and Linda are offering four extended HeartGazing meditations to bring your whole Heart alive and awake in your own unique way, at your own pace.
Click on each link for purchase information:
- Receiving Heart-Transmission Through Gazing Meditation
- The Six-Step Recognition Yoga
- Active Conscious Dreaming™
- The Falcon's Glance Meditation for Awakening Consciousness
"HEARTgazing with Linda and Saniel, and participating in the force-field of their spiritual blessing, has opened up new experiences in my heart and my entire essence – the sense of my expanded consciousness and presence. I am experiencing life and its events more fully in my entire being and feel more grounded, open and aware. My personal spiritual journey has increased in its breadth, depth and velocity since I began this process with them.
Barbara Musser, D.Div., founder of Evolutionary Healing
Great Relief Hero's Journey
a 10-Week Audio Initiation into the Core "Wound-Wellness Mystery" of Your Life
This course is based around the study of Saniel Bonder's book Great Relief: Nine Sacred Secrets Your Body Wants You to Know About Freedom, Love, Trust, and the Core Wound of Your Life.The experience of settling deeply into these sacred secrets, guided by Saniel and Linda's grounding wisdom and supported by their empowering presence, imparts a bodily understanding that most of us don't know we're missing.
Course is comprised of:
- 10 instruction audios keyed to the text,
- an ebook of Great Relief,
- a 1½-hour conference call with Saniel and Linda,
- on-going local or virtual facilitated study groups (optional).
Click here for more information.
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“The Great Relief Hero's Journey will connect you with a deep feeling sense and warm embrace of the personal dimension of your life here on earth, bringing great inner relief and sense of ease in being human, and leading to deep recognition of your individual existence and connection with all human beings.
Rod Taylor
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The Human SUN Experience:
An Initiation into Healing Your Spirit/Matter Split Through Waking Down in Mutuality, as Transmitted and Taught by Saniel & Linda
For anyone who yearns for a structured yet immensely enlivening way to either begin or deepen your practice of Waking Down in Mutuality, this course is the first-ever way you can do that from anywhere on Earth — as long as you have access to a phone, the Internet, and a mailbox!This 14-week course offers an extended, intensive home study curriculum of audio recordings and assigned readings by Saniel and Linda, combined with four 1½ hour teleseminars with a qualified Waking Down in Mutuality Teacher and a 2 hour final teleseminar with Saniel and Linda themselves, plus a wealth of print, audio, and video materials.
Each week you will hear a 35 to 60 minute-long audio recording by Saniel and Linda presenting key points of one of the 12 Human SUN "Gateways into Awakened Freedom, Wholeness, and Love." You'll also have access to accompanying visual mandalas, which together with those key points represent the foundation principles and processes of Waking Down in Mutuality. (The first audio introduces the whole course, and the final audio summarizes it and offers perspectives for the future of your journey afterward.)
These teachings provide both visual and conceptual frameworks for understanding the unique features of the Waking Down in Mutuality process of divinely human awakening, healing, and evolution. The course includes an extensive manual of selected readings from Saniel's many books and manuscripts for you to study in the optional assignments, as well as downloadable audio and video documents, including a new "gazing" video of Saniel and Linda.
The 12 Gateways are divided into 4 Triads, depicted in the Human SUN Mandalas by specific triangles representing whole dimensions of the Waking Down in Mutuality process. As a participant, you will have access to a 1½ hour teleseminar covering each Triad (a total of 4 such teleseminars) with a designated Waking Down in Mutuality teacher who will take you and a committed group of fellow participants through the course. Then, toward the end of the entire Practicum, you and your group will also be invited to join Saniel and Linda for a live 2 hour teleseminar with them personally.
This study is combined with an in-depth presentation of teachings from Saniel's book Healing the Spirit/Matter Split (2006) and a more recent follow-up series of interviews with Saniel and Linda on Waking Down in Mutuality conducted by awakened Waking Down in Mutuality practitioner and Integral Studies master's candidate Lola McCrary.
The "Human SUN-Healing the Spirit/Matter Split Practicum" opens an important depth and breadth of exploration of Waking Down in Mutuality – as both study and practice – for many who have never had access to such an investigation before. It's also highly recommended for long-term practitioners, including Second Birth realizers, who want to take their understanding and capacity for discriminative discernment under the challenges of awakened living to much more profound levels.
Its additional advantage of either a local, in-person or virtual (phone, email) cohort group of fellow participants adds a wonderful human context in which to embrace the work. Some of these connections will almost certainly become long-term if not lifelong friendships for you and the other participants.
This is a self-paced course; participants may start at their convenience. Allow 3 weeks for delivery.
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“The Human SUN Experience provides a magnificent framework, profound, groundbreaking knowledge, and powerful guidance toward direct experience of whole-bodied awakening in these modern times. You personally meet Saniel and Linda through their friendly, open, self-giving style of conversing in the audio recordings. Members of a study group I facilitated while taking this course were surprised by the warm loving transmission that exuded through the recordings and their down-to-earth explanations. Also, the carefully organized consolidations of Saniel's transmission-rich writings are priceless.”
